How are you?

Did you know that you are single for life, but meant to mingle in life?

Ha! Is your head spinning yet? Do you have even more questions than before?

Well, I can’t wait to entangle this for you and talk about my favorite subject:

How to experience existing physically, energetically, and spiritually as YOU.

So about the single thing…

Imagine a lantern. That lantern is here to shine its light strong, powerfully, and all by itself. Now think of millions of lanterns together. They shine even brighter together than alone, but still, every lantern stays single and on its own, shining the best they can alone and all by themselves.

Moral of the story is that every lantern stays its own entity, single. None of them become one with other lanterns by giving up their existence, slipping into being one of the other lanterns or a new lantern from the two that they started as. This just isn't possible!

But let’s imagine the impossible notion of a lantern giving itself up into non-existence. The sad outcome would be that the lantern loses its own and unique light—meaning that there is one light less in the universe. The behavior of that lantern would affect the whole universe in a darkening way.

Let's return to what is possible: every lantern is here to shine its light the best it can, as itself, and become one only with the infinite brightness all these lanterns create together.

See the difference?

One is giving up its lantern existence, the other is following the course of being their own lantern by staying single, and then from there, mingling into being one only with the connected brightness of all. The latter scenario is not only possible, it’s meant to be the life of a lantern—hence, every lantern is single for life, but meant to mingle in life!

You are that lantern!

You are here to be YOU, shining your light the brightest you can, every day, anew and anew. That is your single-ness you are here to experience and share.

You are also here to become one with the brightness of all people you encounter every day, anew and anew. That is your mingle-ness you are here to experience and share.

But that only works, and feels good, if you understand that you are meant to be single for life by following your own single YOU at all times—and only then, go mingle into the connectedness of everything and everyone and become one with the light of everything and everyone.

Why is that so?

The single YOU is the only part that can align, expand, and calibrate in perfectness and pureness from which you can then actually shine the brightest possible at all times.

Anything else mixed in would dim your perfect light, which would still be a light, but won’t feel as good as it could or shine to its full brightness capacity.

Fact is that you are here in this world to be connected and one with all, since we are all the same energy, but you are not here to give up your existence in order to be connected and one with all. On the contrary, you are here to BE YOU first, and as such, realize that we all shine together.

Taking your single-ship and mingle-ship into account, your relationships should look like this:

In a love relationship: You are your own lantern and need to shine for yourself brightly and purely, then take your light (however bright you can get it in that day, hour, minute, split second) and shine together with the brightness of your loved ones—letting the lanterns involved stay individual. Single.

As a family: Everyone is their own lantern. Let everyone shine their own light as brightly as possible, then shine as one huge brightness together. Helping is allowed and lighting other family member’s lanterns here and there - by shining your light even stronger, giving your loved ones light in their dim times, or inspiring them to shine more - is great, but avoid changing each other’s lanterns. Those stay individual, single.

With friends: Shine, beautiful lantern! Follow your steady light in your lane and know that the brighter you shine, the more lanterns you may leave behind. Important thing is to know there is nothing wrong in such a scenario, they are just still searching for their light before they can become one with your brightness. Yes, that offers a possibility that your lights might never meet again, but that is okay since you - and the lanterns drifting away - are meant to be single for life and shine aligned. So don’t fret, be angry, or fill yourself with sadness because it’s a never ending merry-go-round: every lantern will always meet new, aligned lanterns.

At work: You are your lantern, shining powerfully while staying in your lane to not pick up too many “lighting jobs" for others, fueling your light only from your own energy source while becoming one with however much brightness there is—knowing that you don’t have to make up for the lack of it, especially not every single day. If the light is missing or not there most of the days, it is definitely time to change your job.

So, amazing lantern, brilliant YOU, claim your single-ness and enjoy the comfy-ness in this magnificent essence that is YOU. If you have trouble feeling comfortable on the fly, go sit in your most comfortable throne, close your eyes and feel that comforting, warm moment.

That is the amazing well-feeling I am talking about.

Next, take excellent care of your lantern! It is yours and you chose it for this life! Shine your light the way it suits you, and at its - your - brightest at all times. Then make this your daily challenge: How much more can I shine for me? How much better can I live, feel, smile, be happy, and enjoy?

Then, and only then, mingle with the brightness of the world.

That my dear reader, is the secret to your magick!

So splurge on all my books, then in no time these sensational tools will be yours, supporting you to shine brighter than ever—so much so, that I will see your light from wherever I am, no matter where you are in the world. Let's shine brightest together!

Happiest,
Jacqueline - FreakyHealer
⭐ Your biggest fellow light ⭐

 

P.S.

Share this Hello & July blog with whomever needs this message and definitely gift my books to your favorite people, they make excellent surprises coming from your heart.